11/17/2022

In The End, It’s All That Really Matters

As we approach the holidays, a season centered around creating memories, I encourage everyone to embrace the moment more so than ever.

My nephew Joseph is three years old. Every day, he comes over to talk, draw, have a catch, and show the family his new talents. I’m happiest when everyone is sitting around watching him try to hit a tee ball or figure out what he’s attempting to say. Watching Joseph grow up before my eyes has been the pleasure of my lifetime. 

While I’m able to work from home, I far too often find myself unable to unplug at the end of the day. As a result, those texts from my sister saying, “Joe is at Mom and Dad’s house and he’s yelling for Nick,” are answered with, “be there in a bit – finishing work,” and eventually, “sorry, got caught up – I’ll see him tomorrow.” The next time I see him, he’s learned a new word or finally hit that tee ball. 

As we approach the holidays, a season centered around creating memories, I encourage everyone to embrace the moment more so than ever. Remember: There will always be another phone call to make, another spreadsheet to complete, and another report to submit. When one assignment is complete, a new one will be there to take its place. Work will come and go, but moments like the ones described above are fleeting. 

If the past year has taught us anything, it’s that life can change in an instant. Live in the moment and appreciate time with family and friends. In the end, that’s all that really matters.